Easy Secret to Eliminating Negative Emotional Energy

The Secret to Successfully Eliminating Negative Emotional Energy
“The worst of the environmental toxins is a toxic relationship.”  Deepak Chopra, MD

  “I hate to go to work, she’s miserable, expecting me to do her work…always making me do everything over, piling more work on me, talking about everyone, it’s just miserable.”  Sound familiar?  Are your biggest complaints about the people around you?

If one reason you aren’t happy to greet the day is a bad relationship with a co-worker or boss or employee, Feng Shui can help you change that!  Anger, backstabbing, negativity, squabbles and pettiness are toxic to your career and your health.  These distractions drain your energy and bank account and are the worst of toxins you’ll face each day. 

How do you reclaim your joy and wealth?   Discover the easy secret to successfully eliminating negative emotional energy.

·         Plant your day: Write a new script

·         Send them off with mirrors (weird but it works)

1. PlanT your day (not a typo!)   Stop! You can do this at any time.  

I was having coffee with the Editor for my upcoming book.  For the first few moments we catch up on life.  Charles complained that after our meeting he had a dinner meeting with his former wife and he was regretting it: years of turmoil, you know the story.   I listened and then recommended we send some positive energy forward (golden and white sparkles of joy, love, communication, surround the event with a pink and violet bubble of peace, clarity and purpose).   I told him that what we all want is to be loved, so when he was feeling anxious, mentally say, “I love you” to himself and to her. 

We laughed and got back to work.  The next morning I opened my email and there was a note:  “Dinner tonight was very friendly and smooth — not at all what I anticipated!”

When you are thinking about your upcoming day, appointment, event and you experience the feelings of doubt, fear, anguish, hate, or sadness, Stop and write a new script.  Take a few moments to see it going well, smoothly, happily, smooth easy travel through traffic, smiles from those you spend your day with, people giving you unexpected opportunities or cash, etc.  It may take a few days of this, but expect something GOOD to happen and  you will begin to notice more “goodness” happening.Planting the seeds of great events will grow great events.


2. Use energy to gently send them off:  Setting boundaries in this way is amazing because it works.  It works without ever having to have another conversation remember, in the world of energy: “thoughts are things.”   That’s the beauty of knowing Feng Shui:  using the energy world to affect the physical world. 


·         Set an energy boundary.   Imagine (think & feel) a golden, pink, white, violet or blue (or rainbow) boundary around your space, completely including your door and windows, ceiling and floor.  I got this idea from the ‘bio filter’ on Star Trek that all negative energies are filtered out and only Love and Light and Abundance can enter into this space. 

·         Use the mirror cure.  Take a small round mirror (a 1-3″ flat mirror will work and you can find these at a craft store such as JoAnn Fabrics very inexpensively). To repel the offending person or energy place the mirror on the wall facing toward the offending energy so that the reflective part of the mirror is against the wall on your side of the space; you will be looking at the back of the mirror.  (You can place a photo or artwork over the mirror to hide it from your view.)    This part is very important:  detach from the drama of the situation and allow them the right to be as miserable or objectionable as they want; As you are placing the mirror, say, “good luck with ‘that’, over there.”   When using cures, never curse the other person or interfere with their free will to live their lives as they wish; otherwise the energy will become stronger — you have essentially held out the tug-of-war rope and you are now tied to them.

What usually happens: the person will calm down, get a transfer or quit.  You have stopped giving it your power and the Feng Shui has worked to assist you. 

I have used these and many other Feng Shui tools and taught them to many clients:  they work!

Try it and let me know what you think and if you have any questions, be sure to send a comment or email!  There are many more Feng Shui tips and tools to create your office so you can pull more wealth and fun toward you. 



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6 responses to “Easy Secret to Eliminating Negative Emotional Energy

  1. I heard a comedian define Feng Shui as put you husband’s sh$# in the garage.

  2. Fawn your first example with your editor sounds like paving the way with desired intentions. Is there a distinction using this technique with Feng Shui?

    I agree that thoughts are things and we tend to get what we think about the most. I guess my question arises from my assumption that Feng Shui is primariloy about physical spaces and how the energy flow is affected by them.

  3. Hi WRJones,

    As fun as that might be for some people, it’s not often recommended! It’s too bad we can’t separate the good from the bad that easily sometimes isn’t it? Like saying, “Hi Honey, just leave all that messy stuff out there and bring the parts I love in the house.” Wow…what would that be like?

    Love me love my stuff has a whole new meaning.

    Cooperation and space sharing…seems like we have problems with that all over the place.

    Hi Tom,
    Feng Shui, as we tend to understand it in the US is all about rearranging environments but Feng Shui is about energy and how we relate with it; primarily, where it travels and the quality of it. Using Feng Shui we can set up environments to anchor the energy or to balance it. Feng Shui Masters (traditionally practiced acupuncture, Chinese Medicine, herbology, astrology, psychology and more) are masters of the human experience, energy, nature and human nature. Placing items is a part of Feng Shui, reading energy to work with it or change it is what Feng Shui does.

    Everything is energy and in the world of energy, thoughts are things just as things are things. We arrange “things” in space so they hold or anchor the energy for us when we can’t be vigilant.

    In the example I gave, we sent energy to the situation, but we could as easily have sent it restaurant as well, the effects would be longer lasting had we been able to affect the colors, furnishings and shapes but that wasn’t an option at the time.

    Feng Shui has many layers and sending the energy forward is one way to positively affect the ch’i of spaces and situations. Moving furnishings is another.

    Was that helpful?

  4. I’m not easily impsersed. . . but that’s impressing me! 🙂

  5. Sam

    Hi Fawna

    I sit in an open cubicle with a colleague facing my back side. This colleague believes in fengshui and has put together lot of fengshui stuff on his working table. Understand he is doing it for his career and work, but I was not impressed with his comments that there are many enemies in the office and he needs to protect himself. Both of us work in the same business but in different positions and responsibilities. Was he referring to me or was he was trying to hide the fact? He is a selfish person by character, very secretive and likes to be involved where he would get credit for what he does. I read your mirror therapy to ward off but is there something I need to do here? I have seen some changes too at my side in terms of work where my direct supervisor contacts him more whereas he has a direct supervisor for himself. Not sure what is going on here!!! I want to settle this amicably without any cause to nature ….Appreciate your kind advise

    • Hi Sam

      It seems like he’s setting some boundaries for himself which is never a bad thing and I would not take it personally because then you will be in a struggle that you don’t need to be in.

      If your back is facing everyone then you are not in the power position according to your body.

      You can use mirrors so that you can see what’s going on behind you and that will give your body more comfort and you will have less low level stress.

      You can also use mirrors facing toward energy that you’d like to draw a boundary with. So placing the mirror between you and the negative energy and facing toward the negative energy would draw that boundary.

      Feng shui works because it gives us a sense of ourselves and a sense of facilitating our environment.

      What I would do is use the mirrors as I mentioned above so that I can see behind me and draw the boundary with the negative energy that he’s perceiving but sounds like he’s actually just creating a drama. I would determine what’s really important to me and focus on that and not on his drama and Then I would organize myself and my desk according to the Bagua. And then I would determine what I really want and focus on that. When you focus on drama it takes you off your own tracking out of your own potency. I’m not saying ignore it but I would not get further involved in his drama. Enhance your fame area your wealth area and your helpful people area. If you need to call someone else that they are not following channels do that. If you need to call someone out that they are not following channels do that

      Feel free to email me or if you need further consultation just let me know delighted to help you.

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